Allow Me To Share A few Dating Tips For You Male Readers Out There.

You can never be short of a few extra dating tips. I'm hoping you dress in smart casual clothes that flatter you and give you a physical appearance of possessing stamina and being in shape.

Energetic and healthy, and competent in an unexpected emergency – ladies favour gentlemen who pull their weight in a crisis.

Creative intelligence is a sexually selected characteristic, so show yours off and think of novel locations and activities for your date as opposed to meeting in a commonly used wine bar, restaurant or coffee shop.

But whatever you do, be an original individual who likes to have a good time.

Keep away from egocentric behaviour when you first meet. Put Simply don't do all the talking and don't brag. I tend to appreciate subtlety in conversation.

Make sure you listen to what your girl friend has to say and be interested in her. In general, women talk more than men, I certainly do, and they like to feel understood, so try to engage with your date's personality.

Try to make her feel that she is special, rather than just another in a long line of dates. But don't show so much interest in the factual details of her life that you become predatory – don't interview her.

Like wise, don't gaze at her as though she is a body to have sexual intercourse with. Don't objectify her. Try to avoid making comments about her physical appearance, even complimentary ones.

However you can be a little seductive. There is nothing more important to the art of seduction and romance than a great imagination.

Be generous with your time, your humour and your money – be someone with lots to give who enjoys sharing. So if you see a dog while in the company of your date make sure you pat it, if you see birds that can be fed, buy a bun and feed them, if there's a charity box handy shove money in it. Females have a preference for spontaneous altruism in males.

Don't let the first date drag on too long. End on a high note, leaving her wanting more of the same so she emails you for a repeat performance.

But don't forget, research shows females are adept at discerning between genuine behaviour and insincerity, I can detect insincerity in a man in ten minutes.

So whether you're in a long-term relationship or a budding romance, it's time to get seductive. There is nothing more important to the art of seduction and romance than a great imagination.

Unfortunately, there is no magical formula for getting someone into bed, but with some intrigue, titillation and charm; sexual arousal will not be far behind.

Test out a time honoured aphrodisiac before you go out, the increase in testosterone – an axillary odour can cause sexual arousal in her, it does to me.